December 26th is arguably the least anticipated day on the calender. No one wants that day to come quickly. In fact, it may be the most dreaded day on the calendar as well. The most celebrated and anticipated day of the year has come and gone. Every year, the hype for Christmas Day seems bigger and yet every year, those 24 hours pass just as quickly as those of the other 364. With all of the effort, expense, and energy to prepare for that one moment in time one might expect the day to linger just a bit longer, but instead it evaporates, and with it go all the wild dreams and unrealistic expectations that were placed upon it.
This is the nature of Christmas, and with it comes a valuable lesson. Hope will not ever be found in a day, even a great day like Dec. 25th. Hope is found only in Christ. Here are some thoughts posted on the Desiring God blog today. I hope it brings you a helpful perspective as it has me on this annual “let down” day.
Hopeful Post-Christmas Melancholy
December 26, 2009 | By: Jon Bloom | Category: Commentary
Each year Christmas night finds members of my family feeling some melancholy. After weeks of anticipation, the Christmas celebrations have flashed by us and are suddenly gone. And we’re left standing, watching the Christmas taillights and music fade into the night.
But it’s possible that this moment of melancholy may be the best teaching moment of the whole season. Because as long as the beautiful gifts remain unopened around the tree and the events are still ahead of us, they can appear to be the hope we are waiting for. But when the tree is empty and events are past, we realize we are longing for a lasting hope.
So last night, as Pam and I tucked our kids into bed, we talked about a few things with them:
- Gifts and events can’t fill the soul. God gives us such things to enjoy. They are expressions of his generosity as well as ours, but gifts and celebrations themselves are not designed to satisfy. They’re designed to point us to the Giver. Gifts are like sunbeams. We are not meant to love sunbeams but the Sun.
- Putting our hope in gifts will leave us empty. Many people live their lives looking for the right sunbeam to make them happy. But if we depend on anything in the world to satisfy our soul’s deepest desire, it will eventually leave us with that post-Christmas soul-ache. We will ask, “Is that all?” because we know deep down that’s not all there is. We are designed to treasure a Person, not his things.
- It is more blessed to give than receive. What kind of happiness this Christmas felt richer, getting the presents that you wanted or making someone else happy with something that you gave to them? Receiving is a blessing, but Jesus is right—giving is a greater blessing. A greedy soul lives in a small, lonely world. A generous soul lives in a wide world of love.
It’s just like God to let the glitter and flash of the celebrations (even in his honor) to pass and then to come to us in the quiet, even melancholic void they leave. Because often that’s when we are most likely to understand the hope he intends for us to have at Christmas.
posted at http://www.desiringgod.org/Blog/
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